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    Nightmares Of Online Dating/hookups: He Left Me Dripping After Giving Him An Hour Of Sensual Oral Sex…



    Online dating has become one of the most popular ways to find love. Hiding behind your computer screen in the safety and comfort of your home is so much easier than dragging yourself out to a club or bar, trying to be friendly and personable.

    However, most people who have spent any amount of time “playing the field” can tell you their fair share of horror stories. Enduring uncomfortable dates and awkward chitchat is just a small part of the process of finding “the one.”

    Online dating can sometimes bring out the worst in people. Some lie about who they are, what they do, or what they look like. Users have plenty of sites to make their choices from and it is sometimes hard to stick to one partner. They can however be very dangerous because it’s easy to disguise and pretend especially when building profiles. People choose to represent themselves in the most accurate manner by outlining only their good qualities, enticing hobbies

    Tinder, OK Cupid, Afro-introduction, Badoo and Ugandan singles are some of the popular dating sites which have been embraced by Ugandans and some have successfully found partners and founded healthy relationships by swiping right while others have experienced ordeals they will live to tell. From experiencing hits and runs to blackmails, different women share their stories with the Top Secrets team.

    Linda met a guy on a certain dating site. He asked for a hook up and desperate Linda agreed to it.

    I was desperate for money because I never reply to hook up messages. Because I needed money, I asked him how much? We agreed on Shs200,000 and also agreed on the date and place. In our conversations, he revealed that he enjoyed having oral sex and emphasized it many times. I was like no problem because my issue was getting the money.  On D-day, I organized myself and headed to our agreed place.

    We met and true to his earlier vow, we had sensual oral sex for close to one hour. It was one hell of an experience, I experienced and earth-shattering orgasm twice. All the while, he had his clothes on and I was stark naked. I didn’t even touch him. I lay there trembling and wishing he could wear his protection and slide into my already moist womanhood.

    As I closed my eyes and imagined his already throbbing rod to gently slide into me and pump away with reckless abandon, he cleared his voice and mumbled something about not having condoms on him.  He asked to pick them at the reception.   He first went to the bathroom, washed his face and made for the door exit.

    I kept on waiting but the guy did not return. It was the receptionist that came and knocked on the door and asked me to move out. The time booked was over and the guy had left already. I didn’t get even Shs 10,000 from this guy. I left with a lot of anguish and blocked his number, I had been played ,” she narrates.

    For Cathy, a physical meeting with the man of her life turned out to be her biggest nightmare

    “I will never forget what happened to me last month, I got a guy on a certain Ugandan dating app. He was really handsome. The guy was tall, dark skinned and had well-trimmed beards. By the way, beards are my weakness. We jazzed and then planned on when to meet. He asked what I wanted to eat and drink, saying that he wanted to book earlier. I told him goat’s meat and chips and as for drinks, I wanted Baileys. I thought he had money because he had told me to order for anything I wanted.

    Imagine I used my own money to pay boda boda fare to that place since he had promised to refund it when we met. I found him with strips for testing blood, tested and we were all good. I expected to find my order ready but the guy had bought three tusker lite bottles with no seats.

    I asked what had happened to my order and he said they were working on it. He started drinking tusker and asked me to drink as we waited for my order. Then after, he suggested that we start having fun as we waited for our meal and foolishly agreed.  He cunningly convinced me to the bedroom and made love to me non-stop. Only the hunger pangs stopped me in my tracks. There was no way the sex would continue when I was yawning.

    Time came and I really wanted to eat so I refused to continue until I had eaten. He excused himself to go and check out the food and more drinks.

    The guy left me in the room naked. I realized he was taking a long so I texted, asking him where he had gone. The guy said he had received some emergency and went home. I had not seen that coming. You people should fear men, the guy left shs 15000 on the table for my transport. He had played a smart game,” she said

    For the love of a white man, Linda slept with a guy that connected her to him. The man now demands Shs5 m not to release their sex tapes.

    I am married but I got tempted and joined one of these groups that connect people to white men. I got connected to a white man but the guys that connected me said I needed to be cleansed before I boarded the aero plane which I did. I met the guy and he slept with me. Unfortunately, guy is requesting for Shs5m or else he releases our sex video and nudes,” she sobs

    Relationship expert Mariam Ahuja explains that such cases continue to rise because of sex perversion. She says people don’t understand how sacred sex is.

    “People have abused the fruit of sex. Sexual activity had its core values for bonding relationships, hookup partners into something serious but this sexual perversion which is supported by the sexual digital media outlets has come with loss of morals and a lot of fornication for example many people watching pornography lack self -control and impatience in relationships,”

    She also lists immorality as a factor eating up society.

    “We are in a society where it’s very difficult to find someone morally right with standards. They find you boring and weird. Hookups are a way of life. I believe 80% of people are doing it and have taken sex perversion as a style in the community not only in Uganda but world over.”

    She further explains that the need for young people to achieve so much in a snap of a finger is causing more danger. Many have not been nurtured to be patient yet everything in life takes time to build.


    By Rahma Zawedde



    War On Kyabazinga’s Queen Intensifies After Gabula’s London Based Woman Blasts Mutesi For Snatching Father Of Her Kids…



    Inebantu (Queen of Busoga) Jovia Mutesi (R) and King William Gabula Nadiope IV, the Kyabazinga of Busoga Kingdom

    A Ugandan medic based in London has blasted the newly unveiled Inebantu (Queen of Busoga) Jovia Mutesi for snatching the father of her kids King William Gabula Nadiope IV, the Kyabazinga of Busoga Kingdom.

    According to the video posted by TikToker Sky Soljah Uganda that is making rounds on social media, a woman claims that she has been in a love relationship with Nadiope since 2015 and they have children.

    She claimed that she has been sending money to Kyabazinga and taking care of him.

    She alleged that it is a pity that Gabula used part of her money to enjoy life with Mutesi in Dubai and other cities.

    She added that Kyabazinga told him that elders and other leaders in Busoga Kingdom are pressuring him to get married to Mutesi and she gave him the green light because as an African woman, she knows very well that the King always marries many wives.

    She said that she has been silent for a longtime even though she knew everything that was going on.

    However, she disclosed she was provoked by Mutesi who sent her people to insult and abuse her.

    She revealed that Gabula has a number of wives including the one in Canada but all of them respect her because they know what she means in his life.

    She challenged Gabula’s close relatives to come out and give light on her love relationship with their king since they have also been receiving expensive items and money from her.

    She boasted that Mutesi is going to be a housewife because their husband will always to fly to London to enjoy life with her and their children.

    She insisted that Mutesi and Busoga Kingdom cannot maintain Gabula’s life given that every week he uses Shs500k for saloon, Shs600k for massage, Shs600k for special medical treatment and she has been giving him this money since 2015.

    She advised Mutesi to respect her and recognise her as Gabula’s first wife.

    She warned her and other people who are threatening her life that they cannot scare her because she is a British citizen and has already reported the threatening messages they are sending to her.

    She also threatened to spoil the coming wedding between the two which is expected to take place in November 2023.

    She blasted Nadiope for being a smart wire who uses women.

    When contacted over the matter, Andrew Ntange the spokesperson of Obwakyabazinga told theGrapevine that a decision was taken not to comment on the matter to preserve the institution.

    “We don’t want to appear to be on the defensive. It’s negative energy!” Ntange stated.

    Last week, a delegation from Busoga Kingdom led by Princes Arnold Nadiope and Joseph Muvawala the Katukiiro (Prime Minister) of Busoga officially received Mutesi from her parents Stanley Bayole, the Resident District Commissioner (RDC) of Bulambuli and Rebecca Nakisita Bayole at the function which took place at Mutesi’s home in St. Mulumba Village, Kyebando parish in Mayuge district.

    Mutesi is an Old girl of Mt. St. Mary’s College Namagunga before joining Makerere University where she pursued a Bachelors of Arts degree in Economics.

    At Makerere, she slept in Olympia hostel in Makerere Kikoni.


    By Grapevine Reporter


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    I Want To Test Nampeera Before Junior: Mirundi, Son Fight Over Nampeera’s Phone Number…



    Christine Nampeera (C) who Mirundi (L) wants to test before his son Junior (R)

    Senior presidential advisor on media Joseph Tamale Mirundi who is also the MK Movement spokesperson for Buganda has pleaded with Beat FM radio presenter Mark Omukunja and celebrated entertainment journalist Isaac Katende alias Kasuku not to give his son Joseph Tamale Mirundi Junior the phone number of Christine Nampeera.

    Mirundi says that he wants to test Nampeera’s sweetness before his son.

    Mirundi declared that Nampeera exhibited high skills of satisfying and serving a man sex and every serious man should look for her number.

    “I saw the video. She is a class above the wives we have. If she can dance like a caterpillar in a small place like that toilet, what if she is on the bed. My son Junior has been boasting that she has her number but a realised that he doesn’t have it. Mukunja and Kasuku please don’t give him her number because I’m also interested in her,” Mirundi pleaded.

    He wondered where Nampeera got those skills of shaking her waist like a caterpillar. She assured her that if she keeps on practicing, she is going to become rich because rich men will flood her in box pleading to have a test of her sweetness.

    He added that people have problems in their marriages and want young skilled girls like Nampeera who make the bedroom game more interesting something that their wives have failed to do.

    He further narrated that he even received phone calls from his female friends asking for Nampeera’s boyfriend Barasha’s phone number because he also exhibited wonderful skills when playing the game.

    “I’m told that Barasha got those skills from China, that he spent a lot of time there and that Chinese are very skilled in playing sex. Women also want skilled younger boys who can make sex more interesting,” Mirundi added.

    Last month, Nampeera’s video leaked on social media when she was having sex with Barasha in the toilet at Kenji’s bar in Kamwokya, a Kampala suburb.

    Since the beginning of this year, several videos have leaked of younger girls having unprotected sex in toilets with sex predators and preliminary investigations show that most of the culprits first get drunk with alcohol or drugs.


    By Grapevine reporter


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    Chief Justice Dollo Drops Justice Kisakye From List Of Supreme Court Justices Who Are Set To Preside Over Cases…



    Chief Justice Alfonse Chigamoy Owiny-Dollo the head of the Supreme Court has dropped troubled Justices Dr. Esther Kisakye Kitimbo from the list of Supreme Court Justices who are set to preside over cases.

    In the Internal Memo signed by Harriet Ssali Nalukwago, the Supreme Court Registrar released the names of Supreme Court Justices who are set to preside over the coming Civil Appeals and Applications hearing sessions scheduled for 4th to 8th September 2023.

    The listed Justices include: Justice Faith Mwondha, Professor Lilian Tibatemwa, Justice Percy Night Tuhaise, Justice Elizabeth Musoke, Justice Christopher Madrama, Justice Stephen Musota, Justice Mike Chibiita and Chief Justice Dollo.

    Sources at the Supreme Court told theGrapevine that Chief Justice Dollo, being the head of the Supreme Court always has the influence when it comes to allocation of files that is why he previously appointed late Justice Stella Arach Amoko to allocate files in his absence as the administrator at the Supreme Court.

    However, other sources revealed that Justice Kisakye was left out because she is out of the country receiving medication abroad.

    Last month, 63-years-old Justice Kisakye wrote to President Yoweri Kaguta Museveni seeking early retirement as a Supreme Court Justice.

    Justice Kisakye tendered in her prayer months after Justice Benjamin Kabiito’s Judicial Service Commission (JSC) recommended to the president to institute a tribunal to investigate her on the allegations of indiscipline which she protested in the Constitutional Court.

    According to Section 27 of the Administration of Judiciary Act 2020, judicial officers get early retirement after receiving consent from the president.

    Peter Walubiri, Justice Kisakye’s lead lawyer says that one of the reasons why her client decided to pray for early retirement is because the Chief Justice has denied her cases to preside over since 2021 when they got misunderstanding over the presidential election petition filed by National Unity Platform (NUP) party presidential candidate Robert Kyagulanyi Ssentamu (Bobi Wine) against President Museveni.

    Justice Kisakye accused Chief Justice Dollo of confiscating her files containing her descenting rulings in favour of Bobi Wine.

    Walubiri explains that Justice Kisakye always writes all judgements and rulings by herself.

    When asked whether her client can accept president Museveni’s advice if he advises her to cancel her resignation and return to the bench, he says that it will be her personal decision.

    He insists that even though his client asked for early retirement, her constitutional court petition against the Attorney General, Justice Dollo will proceed at the Constitutional Court.


    By Sengooba Alirabaki


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