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Things Women Who’ve Been Cheated On Many Times Do



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They say a scorned woman (one who has been betrayed) is more furious than anything that hell can devise. However, women who have been hurt by their lovers are extremely sensitive human beings and they deserve attention, patience, love, passion and empathy, and if you approach her for love, you must play your cards right because whenever they’re hurt, they take it harder than men.

However, we witness how deeply hurt some women can be. Most of the men, sadly, are unable to truly understand the emotional profile of each woman. Because of that, men are not fully capable of measuring the consequences of their actions.

Women who have been hurt too many times change radically, both consciously and subconsciously. These are some of the things Women Who Have Been Hurt Too Many Times Do:

1. They stop taking love seriously
Love is no longer something they wish to look for. They hope it will come but when someone tries to love them they hesitate. They are more closed off than they were before.

2. They doubt others more
They doubt you and your intentions. They do not want to go through that again and will not just jump into anything. Just because you show interest doesn’t mean you have good intentions.

3. They put up walls
They build barriers as a means of protecting themselves. They have seen the things this world does to people and want no part. They do all they can to keep others out.

4. They accept sadness as a part of life
Unfortunately, this is the sore reality. They man not be always depressed or anxious, but they will always see life in monochromatic colors.

5. They stop sharing
The concept of sharing and mutual progress and wellbeing is something that becomes unacceptable to them. They want to protect what they own, both in the material and spiritual reality. Their possessions slowly become untouchable for their new partners.

6. They trust less
They won’t trust anyone, not just men. Be aware that this is a defensive mechanism, slowly developed after many failures, disappointments and pain.

7. They are strong
Of course, they become strong and resistable. They are hard and they know how to keep this mindset. They don’t only want to be strong on the inside, but on the outside too, they won’t hesitate to show their strenght and independence in front of anyone.

8. They think of romance as ‘fake’
Romance is not something they believe in anymore. Relationships are meant to be so much more and they know this. They will not fall into the sweet trap most men put out ever again.

9. They focus on themselves
They take care of themselves first now and do not let others get in their way. They know what they want and will not let you keep them from getting it. They take care of themselves above all else.

10. They get rid of toxic people
Toxic people have no place in their lives. This is, actually, something that all of us should apply to their lives if they want true fulfilment and positivity. Toxic people spread negative energy and they are really dangerous.

11. They stand on their own
They are able to get by without the help of others. They are independent and do not need anyone but themselves. Sure, the company is nice but they can live without it.

12. They refuse to make excuses
They will not make excuses for the behavior of others. If you make a mistake they will call you out on it. Nothing gets by them anymore.

13. They stop taking risks
Taking risks, of course, is not their thing. This is the worst thing of them all because sometime in some of those risks they may find their prince charming. However, women who have been hurt many times are not going to take any risk, and if you want to be in a relationship with her, you need to work very hard to prove you are an honorable person.



New Sex Research: Semen May Actually Cure Depression/Stress In Women



To add onto the many health benefits which come along with having sex, scientist have discovered that semen can help cure women’s depression. However, the said semen has to come from sex.

Recently, psychologists have found that a woman’s happiness levels and sleep quality could be attributed to the quantity of semen going into her body during sex. But before you toss those problematic condoms into the dustbin, here’s what you should know:

The research
A study from the State University of New York interviewed 300 women about their sexual behaviour. These women were asked to fill out an anonymous questionnaire that addressed various aspects of their sexual behaviour, including how often they had sexual intercourse, when they last had sex, and whether or not they used condoms.

What did they find?
According to the research results, the researchers found a strong relationship with the usage of condoms and the female level of depression. Females who engaged in sexual intercourse without the use of condoms exhibited significantly lower depression level when compared to those who usually or always used condoms.
The researchers took other factors into consideration, like whether or not a woman was on birth control or any other type of contraceptive, or if she was in a relationship. Only the usage of condoms seemed to be the only thing that really had a direct relationship to the woman’s mood.

How exactly does semen help?
The results of the research shows that the vagina absorbs a number of components of semen that can be detected in the bloodstream within a few hours after an intercourse.
There are six main compounds of interest in the seminal plasma (it is the fluid portion of semen) namely, cortisol, estrogen, prostaglandins, oxytocin, melatonin, and serotonin. Estrogen, oxytocin, and prostaglandins are linked to reducing the levels of stress and depression. The chemical oxytocin is said to trigger feelings of affection, which helps to promote social bonding. Melatonin is a sleep-inducing hormone and serotonin is regarded by science as the best known antidepressant neurotransmitter.

How could the benefits possibly outweigh the risks that unprotected sex holds for many people?
One of the golden rules we have learned from our childhood is, if you are going to have casual sex, you should always, ALWAYS, use protection. This is the obvious flaw in the research. Even though the researchers say that unprotected sex can reduce female depression and increase the quality of sleep, having dozens of kids and getting sexually transmitted diseases probably aren’t good for a woman’s mood or sleep schedule. Regardless of the findings, this study does not advocate that people should abstain from using condoms.
Therefore researchers only suggest this methodology if you’re a woman in a monogamous relationship and taking birth control (or if you’re planning to get pregnant). If you are someone who fall into the above said category, skipping the condom could do wonders for your mood.


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Pregnant Women And Children To Miss Out On New HIV/AIDS Drug –  Health Ministry



The Ministry of health has revealed that pregnant women and children below 10 years will not be enrolled for the Dolutegravir drug, a new more efficient anti-HIV/AIDS.

The drug which is also known as DTG also suppresses the transmission of HIV/AIDS and it’s admission will be in a period of 18 months.

The decision follows advice from World Health Organization (WHO) after carrying out a survey in Botswana and the results indicated that the drug is dangerous to the pregnant women since it antagonizes child formation within the womb.

According to the Uganda population-based HIV Impact Assessment (UPHIA) 2017 research, out of 1.3 million people infected with HIV/AIDS, 1.14 are on treatment which is an alarming number according to Dr. Joshua Musinguzi from the ministry of health.

In the media dialogue held in Kampala, Musinguzi  has assured Ugandans that  by 2020, HIV/AIDS pandemic will be under control and by 2030 it will no longer be a public health threat especially due to the various intervention put in place to fight it as clearly shown by Statistics. Latest figures show that new cases of HIV/AIDS stood at 50,000 in 2017 from 130,000 in 2013.

Musinguzi further indicates that men make up the biggest number of deaths because they tend to shun away from treatment services as opposed to their female counterparts.

The ministry of health has put in place favorable intervention including outreach programs, over time and weekend clinics amongst others.

Other intervention put in place to fight the epidemic include scaling up the ABC program which stands for Abstinence, Be faithful and Condom use, additional interventions like safe male circumcision, elimination of mother to child transmission of HIV and PREP and septrin use have also been introduced.


Dolutegravir (DTG), sold under the brand name Tivicay, is an antiretroviral medication used, together with other medication, to treat HIV/AIDS. It may also be used, as part of post exposure prophylaxis, to prevent HIV infection following potential exposure. It is taken by mouth.

Common side effects include trouble sleeping, feeling tired, diarrhea, high blood sugar, and headache. Severe side effects may include allergic reactions and liver problems. Dolutegravir is an HIV integrase strand transfer inhibitor which blocks the functioning of HIV integrase which is needed for viral replication.


By Mboowa Nathan


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Number Of Ugandans Especially Girls Getting HIV/AIDS Every Week Increasing – Uganda Aids Commission Warns



The Uganda Aids Commission has said that according to recent statistics,  the number of Ugandans getting HIV/AIDS every week has increased to around 80%.

The director general of Uganda Aids Commission Dr. Nelson Musoba noted that girls occupy the biggest percentage and those infected.

He added that statistics also show that men don’t want to go for testing yet most of them do check-ups on their wives.

“When women test positive and they start medicine, the men also start taking medicine with them which is also still a problem,” Musoba wondered.

While launching a campaign with Reach a Hand Uganda aimed at making sure all the youths get tested, Musoba estimated that of the 40 million people in the country, 36% of this population are adolescents and about 43% only know their HIV status.

The communication officer of Reach a Hand Uganda Nyombi Sylvester said that statistics show that more than 2000 people died of HIV/AIDS in 2017 with the biggest number being the youth.

Nyombi added that young people only test once in two years and the ‘I KNOW KATI CONCERT’ will help reach out to all the youths.

The campaign is going to spread across various districts in Uganda starting on the 25th of August in Lira.

“Because we know what  the youths want, we have decided to bring them their loved artistes like Fille, Geosteady, Gravity Omutujja, Nina Rose among others. We will also bring the pharmacies close to them so that they get tested,” he added.

Nina Rose who represented the artistes said that it’s very important to tell their fans the truth because they trust them so much.


By Mboowa Nathan


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